Marni Analisando Texto masculino de Revista.

Nesse email-comercial, Marni analisa a linguagem corproal feminina. A parte que eui mais gosto é aquela odne ela fala, bem ao estilo Ogro de sedução algo como "se você quer, você vai lá e pega". Claro, não com essas mesmas palavras. Mas ela fala em "você decide" . Tem muitos caras que ficam esperando sinais da mulher. No estilo Mode One/Ogro, o homem quer dar uma gozada na vagian de alguém, então ele vai lá, pega ela e leva.

10 Signs She WANTS You Francisco
De:
Marni (Your Wing Girl)

Hey Francisco,

Want to know 10 easy way to spot if a woman is flirting with
you?

I recently came across an article by Bob Strauss, for
Match.com's Happen magazine, on signs to look for when a
woman is into you.

You may or may not know that I do not believe in waiting for
signs to take action. When considering approaching a woman the
only sign you need is "I am interested in her and want to
know more."

BUT I once you get into a conversation with a woman, I know
it can be difficult for men to tell when a woman is interested
and flirting.

First, signs she is not interested:

- No eye contact
- Body language away from you
- Nodding and not responding
- 1-word answers

You see these signs, RUN. Get away and get over this woman.

Second, sign she is flirting taken from Bob Strauss's article.

My comments are at the end of each point in bold.

Enjoy!

There are two types of guys in the world: those who think
anything a woman does (scratching her nose, asking for the time,
bending down to adjust her pumps) is an invitation to an
immediate come-on, and those who can catch a casually tossed
keycard in a crowded hotel bar and think to themselves,
"Golly, she must have mistaken me for a bellboy. I'll just leave
this with the bartender and he'll give it back to her when
she's sober."

If you're the second type, read the list below immediately,
lest that gal who's desperately been trying to engage your
interest moves on to someone a bit less obtuse.

1. A smile.

This is the simplest flirt there is, and the hardest to
misinterpret. If a woman smiles at you from across the room,
this means that she wants you to talk to her.

Really. (Though once this happened to me, and as I approached the
lady in question she said, "Oh, I'm sorry! I thought you were
someone else.")

Marni Comment: Reinforcing my belief that everything is a signal,
don't wait for a smile. You like her, you approach her, and then
you decide.

If you have a situation where the woman says "whoops thought you
were someone else" let her know it was okay for her to make that
mistake but you are still sticking around cause you want to know
more about her "whoops, I think your hot and could have a good
personality that I may like. Let's see if you do".

2. The hair twirl.

Just about every person I interviewed mentioned that the girly,
unselfconscious habit of playing with her hair means that a woman
is open to your advances. So if you say hello and she's wrapping
her locks around her finger, well, all signals say: Keep chatting.

Marni Comment: This is something that I do when I am into a
guy and want him to be attracted to me. I twirl my hair, touch
my lips and bat my eyes.

All very feminine things that, as women, we feel will make a
man turned on and more attracted to us.

3. An unbuttoned button.

Watch for a blouse that isn't as closed up as it might usually be,
says image consultant Dianne M. Daniels. "No, she won't be stripping
off her clothes in front of you, but if she doesn't immediately
re-wrap that scarf so you don't see her cleavage, it could be a
sign that she's interested."

Marni Comment: This may or may not be a sign. It's a sign when
she returns from the bathroom with new lip gloss applied, her
hair tossed and a one less button done up.

4. A cry for help.

"If a woman asks you for assistance in any way, such as, 'Excuse
me, could you help me figure out the tip on this bar tab? I've
never had to pay one before,' she's flirting with you by indulging
your psychological need to feel like a hero," says Py Kim Conant,
author of Sex Secrets of an American Geisha.

Marni Comment: I have definitely done this one many times. Asked
for help when it was not needed just to catch someone's attention.
"Can you help me lift this heavy chair for me?".

I do Yoga and weight training and could totally lift it myself
but why do it yourself when there is a cute guy that could do
it for you.

5. A well-placed double entendre.

Says Debbie Mandel, author of Turn on Your Love Light, "When a
woman is flirting, she'll invest the conversation with subtle
double meanings, and most everything she says will have an
erotic undercurrent, even unremarkable phrases like "I really
like your tie."

Marni Comment: I don't know about double entendres but for me,
if I make a statement like this one I am FLIRTING. Unless I say
it point blank or over the top. This is an important to note.
Women who are overly comfortable with you are NOT usually into
you.

6. Happy feet.

"Consciously, a woman may play hard to get by twisting her
upper body away, but her feet show where her interest really
is," says TV personality Dr. Diana Kirschner.

"A clueless guy should ask her some friendly questions, then
watch carefully to see if she starts opening up nonverbally by
pointing her toes in your direction." (Note for beginners:
Be subtle about glancing under the table.)

Marni Comment: Sometimes very true.

7. Fidgeting. This one cuts both ways, but the experts concur: If
a gal constantly tosses her hair, twists her pinky ring, or snaps
her hair band, this counts as flirtatious behavior if and only
if (and these are big "ifs" and "onlys") she maintains
uninterrupted eye contact. If she keeps glancing away, she may
very well be repulsed by you and wants to get away as soon as
possible.

Marni Comment: Very true. As I said above about double entendres,
when I am attracted to someone I stumble over my words and fidget.
Not at my peak of confidence so I get nervous.

8. Proximity.

"If a woman stays inside a 'safe distance', then she's probably
interested in you, especially if she's not the touchy-feely
type," Daniels says (of course, this advice doesn't necessarily
apply if you're talking in a crowded, noisy club). "Also, watch
for any lingering touches where she doesn't immediately remove
her hand."

Marni Comment: True. Women who do not want to be around you will
physically back away from you. If she is into you she will
lightly touch you in some way.

9. Lively banter.

For many women, flirting is a non-button-popping, non
toe-pointing no-brainer: They merely listen to what you have
to say, and interject meaningful, encouraging comments.

If she's not interested, she'll yawn during your yarn about
parachuting behind enemy lines during Gulf War I. If she is
interested, she'll expostulate endlessly about how
fascinating the shoe business can be.

Marni Comment: I have done this myself when I am attracted
to a guy. I will be fascinated by anything that comes out of
his. As I said in the intro to this blog is if a woman is
NOT interested she will give you 1-word answers and nod.

If you have a woman engaged but you can tell she is slightly
nervous, she is into you.

10. Lack of inhibition.

I'm as cloddish as the next guy, but I still fondly
remember the time I met a gal at a cocktail party and,
within five minutes, we were talking about how old we were
when we lost our virginity. (Alas, she already had a boyfriend,
but I still cling desperately to the belief that it was a
genuine flirt maneuver...)

Marni Comment: This is a sticky one because most women who
are that comfortable with you right off the bat are usually
not attracted to you. Therefore they may freely reveal lots
of private information with little remorse because there is
no attraction.

However it depends on the conversation. In this case I
would need to hear more about what information was actually
exchanged to give a good assessment as to whether she was
interested.

Over all, I think these are great tools for you to use to
catch female signals.

But succeeeding with women isn't about ONLY avoiding mistakes.

Only knowing this stuff would be the equivalent of a basketball
team that plays great defense but can't score points.

You've got to also know how to "take it to the hoop" and score
at will. When it comes to creating ATTRACTION, you CAN take it
to the next level... and the next... all the way to the point of
"getting physical" with a woman...

Over the years, I've helped guys who came from not being able
to even TALK to a woman they didn't know... to being able to
approach any woman in any situation and have a VERY HIGH chance of
getting a date with her... and of course more, if they wanted.

And if you're reading this right now, and saying to yourself "I
would really like to know how they did that", well, the secrets
are all laid bare here:

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Go through the WHOLE PROGRAM.

TRY some of the things you learn.

Trust me, you will start to see IMMEDIATE results. Women will
respond to you differently, because you will see things from a
new perspective.

Talk to you again soon.

Your Sis You Never Had,

Marni